What Makes Difficult Conversations Difficult
Some conversations are much harder to have than others. I have quite a few books on communication and some specifically on difficult conversations, but I had not quite thought of…
The Sounds of My Youth
Star Wars occupied most of my childhood. The original film was released when I was 5 years old and, after seeing that, Luke Skywalker, tie fighters and Wookies consumed the…
A Little Bit of Structure Helps the Day Run Smoothly
The Great Thumping Mystery Solved!
The other day I finally solved a mystery that has been plaguing me for weeks. I had not lost sleep over it, but it was starting to feel like a…
A Comics Podcast to Pass the Time
You may have a bit more time on your hands these days. If you are looking for something to do – and if you like superheroes or comics (and why…
Easy Side-by-Side Windows in Windows 10
I have never liked messing around with my carefully curated windows in Windows 10. Like many things in my life, I have spent time getting them just the way I…
Living Inside of the Circle
It is a productivity/personal development cliche by now to talk about focusing on the things that matter most and not to get caught up in the busyness of life. This…
Perfectionism as Laziness
Someone mentioned in a podcast I was listening to this morning that perfectionism can be reframed as laziness. As in I am too lazy to do the hard work involved…
Being superficially considerate
We may try to do what we think is best for someone else, but not realize that this might actually be imposing our assumptions onto them. Derek Sivers put it…
My Derek Sivers Love
Yeah, I said it, I love Derek Sivers. More specifically, I love the work he does and how he does it. He is a thoughtful, deep thinker, great writer, world…
Analog(ue) vs Digital Living
I donβt know if you are regular/avid listeners of the Focused podcast, but the last episode was utter gold in my books. It was all about their use of calendars…
Why Thinking in Public
Thoughts come and go. I try to write down many of them. I tell my dear wife, son, friends and family ad nauseam of my latest ponderings. I have developed…